When I was about 15 or 16 I was in a car with a few friends. We were headed to pick up another friend from work, and had just finished smoking a giant joint. The music was loud, I lit a cigarette, and cracked the window. The sound of the dog barking wasn’t going away. Man…this was some good stuff!

I identified as many things: mom, wife, friend, daughter, co-worker. But what I couldn't identify was myself because of these attachments.

I joke that this child has been a pain in my ass since in utero.

I wanted to share four things I learned about pivoting. I hope you can relate to each of these points and I hope it helps to ease anxiety caused by constant changes happening in our world.

Bonus step included

On a scale of 1 - 10, if I could promise you quick results, how fast would you say “tell me more”?